Do you want to make a name for yourself? Whether we want to or not
we are making a name for ourselves in the circle of our friends.
At birth our parents give us a name
that identifies us. We spend the rest of our lives making that name mean
something.
What's in a name? Webster says a name is a title by which one
is known. Shakespeare in his play, Romeo and Juliet, said, ""What's in a name? That which we call a rose By any other name would smell as
sweet." The Bible says a "good name" is
better than riches. (Prov. 22:1)
Our names tell our family's story. It tells our history,
what we have done. It's our pedigree. In slavery, a slave's last name
changed from plantation to plantation, depending on the name of his master. He
had no identity of his own, but only that of his master. In the mid sixties the
late Malcolm Little dropped his last name, saying it was a slave name and
changed it to Malcolm X to represent the unknown family name of his origins. We
can track our history through our last name; it can carry us back hundreds of
years.
While our last name tells our
family's story, our first name tells our
story. It distinguishes us from the rest of the members of our family. For
about 100 years after the Civil War Blacks commonly gave their children Bible
names. Names such as Samuel, Joseph, David, Matthew, Thomas, Ruth, Mary and
Martha were common. Parents hoped their children would grow to take on the
characteristics of these great Bible characters. In the age of the Soap Opera, many named their
children after characters on the afternoon soaps and children born during the
Afro American Renaissance found themselves with names from Africa or at least
an African sound.
What we do and how we do it, what we
say and how we say it, the way we live and how we live it, what we achieve and
how we achieve it, are the ingredients that make our name.
There are many who have made names
for themselves already. When we hear their names images come to mind. We
associate courage and strength to the names of Martin Luther King and Rosa
Parks. We associate intelligence and achievement to the names of Barack Obama, Condoleezza
Rice and Colin Powell.
There are others who have made a
name for themselves, too. The images that come to mind when we hear their names
are not always positive, inspiring or noteworthy.
Even today, youth are making names
for themselves. Certain words are said in our family that associate us with how
we are perceived: smart, mischievous,
helpful, pain in the neck, arrogant, disrespectful, darling, perfect,
and no-good are just some of the names that are being applied to us by
others...what's important, is which of those names we will apply to ourselves.
In our quest to make a name for
ourselves, God promises to give us a name that will be recognized in heaven, if
we follow Him, believe in Him and trust Him. In fact, we have been promised
that if we walk humbly, repent and honor His name that he will heal, bless and raise us to high heights. 2 Chronicles 7:14 says, "If my people, which are called by my
name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their
wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will
heal their land. "
As Christians, we are making a name
for ourselves. It is a name that brings glory to God and lifts up the name of
the savior. If anybody asks you who I am, tell them I'm a child of God.